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Ready for More Than Good Enough?
There's a predictable path your clinical skills follow, whether you're developing expertise in a therapy focus, therapy model, or a focused client group. You'll move through four distinct stages: Beginner → Competent → Expert → Master*
Here's what happens at each stage:Beginner: You have basic k...
Jan 16, 2026
The One Practice That Separates Experts from Everyone Else
You've probably heard the advice: "Practice makes perfect."
Except it doesn't. Not really.
What makes the difference between an expert therapist with 20 years of experience and someone who's simply been there for twenty years?
Deliberate practice
That's not head down working, seeing client...
Jan 13, 2026
The Habit Zone vs. Discovery Zone: Why Comfortable Practice Doesn't Improve Your Skills
Let me tell you about Bishop, a competent chess player who spent thousands of hours playing speed chess. His improvement? Nearly zero.
Bishop got frustrated. He thought maybe he needed some luck, a different strategy, better opponents. But his real problem was simpler: he was stuck in what w...
Jan 08, 2026
Does an adventure into mastering your profession call you?
Can I share something that's been lighting me up all year?
In 2025, I’ve had the honour of working with the first Therapist Adventures cohort. I’ve watched them challenge themselves, examine their clinical skills through practice and feedback, and stretch their professional growth into new areas...
Jan 04, 2026
Balancing Self and Social Valued Actions (Part 3 - corrected link)
This is part three of my newsletter on using values to help us live according to what matters most.
To revisit the key steps for part 1 and 2:
Key steps Part 1 - Click here to read part one
Key steps Part 2 - Click here to read part two
Part 3 - Balancing self and social valued actions:
Liv...
Dec 23, 2025
Balancing Self and Social Valued Actions (Part 3)
This is part three of my newsletter on using values to help us live according to what matters most.
To revisit the key steps for part 1 and 2:
Key steps Part 1 - Click here to read part one
Key steps Part 2 - Click here to read part two
Part 3 Balancing self and social valued actions:
Livin...
Dec 16, 2025
Final Call: Transform How You Support Separated Families
If you work with children navigating two homes, or adults who are doing their best to co-parent through separation, this is the webinar that will change how you support families.
Bridges Not Battlefields is happening next Thursday, and this is your final chance to register.
Every day, mental he...
Dec 02, 2025
The moment when a stuck client suddenly opens up (and how to create it)
You know that feeling when you're working with a client who's stuck?
They're giving you one-word answers. Or they're lost in rumination. Or they keep saying "I don't know" when you ask about what matters to them.
I've been there countless times in my own practice. And I've spent years developing...
Nov 23, 2025
3 Things You Might Not Know (But Definitely Need to Know) About Working with Separated Parents
I've been thinking about something lately.We know that 28% of Australian children under the age of 15 are growing up across separated homes. We also know that these kids are twice as likely to present to a therapist’s office seeking support for anxiety and other distress.
And here’s the problem:...
Nov 16, 2025
Bridges not Battlefields
As a mental health professional, trying to support children and adults with family separation is a minefield of complexity:
Two parents separate
Conflict escalates
Lawyers are called
Despite parents' best intentions, children end up caught in the middle, and the toll on their overall developme...
Oct 31, 2025
Developmental ACT for Neurodivergent Young People
Imagine walking into your next session with a neurodivergent young person feeling confident, equipped, and genuinely excited about the possibilities you have to share with them.
And then, picture them leaving not just with coping strategies, but with a deepening sense of self-acceptance and a c...
Sep 30, 2025
Linking Values to Action in Therapy (Part 2)
This is part two of my newsletter on using value cards and other physical tools to help us connect with what matters most to us.
A video is included at the end of this newsletter for those who prefer to watch.
Part one key steps:
• Physicalise the Value • Open up the conversations with gent...
Aug 26, 2025