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3 steps to level up as a therapist or counsellor

Jul 15, 2025
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Things you’re probably doing wrong… and how to fix them

 

Over many years I have travelled the world, training thousands of professionals who work in therapy and counselling for adolescents and adults, and I have noticed 3 common mistakes we tend to make.

It is easy to fall into the trap of making these mistakes, but’s it’s also very easy to correct too!

It’s a 3-step approach that you can use while also being connected to evidence-based therapy, while continuing to get good outcomes for clients, and still use your favourite therapeutic models. 

It’s not as hard as you think to incorporate that ton of training into your work. All you need is a rocking framework and a 3-step strategy to learn. 

 

How to level up your skills as a therapist or counsellor

 

 

 

 

 

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